HELP PASTOR, I HAVE MANY SUITORS AND I DON’T WHICH ONE TO CHOOSE PART 3

In the previous episode we have explored the mystery Of your garden and we have explained how to locate your purpose.

Don’t ever marry someone who is not interested in your calling or passion, I can assure you of frustration in that relationship if you go ahead.

After you have considered purpose and garden, the most important factor to consider is the voice of God

What is God saying?
Don’t go on a journey until you hear from God.

Some sisters go to a pastor with list of brothers, saying please help me pray over them to know which one is my husband, that is not correct at all.
Hear me, you are to hear God for your self, what the pastor should do for you is confirmation of what God has told you.

The pastor will not live in that marriage with you, you must know this, every relationship has it’s own challenges but when this challenges happen, it is the word of God you heard that will keep you through that period.

The voice of God is not scarce, we are the one that is dull in hearing.

Every correct child knows the voice of His/Her father but if you don’t know the voice of God then we need to work on that.

Some will say pastor, I have prayed and I didn’t hear anything.
Hear me, if you have not been hearing God for anything In your life, don’t expect to hear all of a sudden about marriage. God is not a magician.
He is talking to you everyday but you need to hear.

He speaks concerning even the smallest things you could ever imagine such as even when to go out, where to go, where to pass, when to eat, what course to study. He is a speaking God, He is not deaf and dumb.

Pastor How do I know His Voice?

Until you are familiar with His WORD you can never be KNOW HIS VOICE.
The Voice of His Word is His Voice
Get familiar with the WORD, then you will know His VOICE.

Pastor, How do I distinguish between my mind and His Voice?
Get familiar with His Word, to know His Word is to Know His VOICE

Until you have obeyed the instructions in the WORD, don’t expect HIM TO GIVE YOU A SPECIFIC INSTRUCTION.

A lady who doesn’t study her bible should not expect a direction concerning marriage, except you want deceit.

Pastor what about dreams, Maybe I dreamt that I was fetching water and he came to help me? Ahahahhahahaha

Don’t be a joker
How many times have God directed you via dreams? did you have that dream when you were looking for admission, did you have it before you applied for a job or got the job, why is the dream now coming because of marriage.
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If God doesn’t lead you via dreams on a regular basis, don’t believe any dream concerning marriage.*

Dreams can be deceitful, devil also give dreams and your mind and desires and create dreams.

God lead via dreams but if that is not the way God leads you on a normal basis don’t ever follow a dream to get married.

I have had such dreams that I married several ladies ahahhahaha thank God I didn’t follow them, maybe I would have ten wives now.

You must know the way God talks to you and lead you, discover it and master it.

I will continue in Part 4
I see a burning Generation
P.Daniel
#FireInMyBones

(MUST READ)HELP PASTOR, I HAVE MANY SUITORS, HOW DO I KNOW THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME? PART 2

In the part one of this edition, we have been able to deal with the concept of your garden, knowing your garden.
Your garden means your purpose, your assignment, the reason why you were created, the reason for your existence.

Someone will say pastor, How do I discover my purpose?

Take this example, a knife can be used to kill, but the original purpose is to cut ( meat, bread and so on), now the fact that a knife can kill doesn’t mean it’s purpose is to kill.

How do you now know the purpose of a knife?

You know this by asking the manufacturer or study the manual of the manufacturer.

The way to discover purpose is to ask the manufacturer.
The manufacturer knows the product more than anybody.

Ask God who created you, No body can tell you who you are, Only Him who created you can. He created you, He knows you.

“I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.”
Jeremiah 1:5 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/jer.1.5.NLT

Secondly, The manual will reveal that knife is for cutting.

All believers have the manual of our maker, The manual is the BIBLE

YOU NEED TO STUDY THE MANUAL OF YOUR MANUFACTURER SO YOU WON’T MISS YOUR FUNCTION AND ALSO MALFUNCTION IN YOUR FUNCTIONS.

To discover purpose, you need to study the manual of your manufacturer

psalm 40: 7 Then I said, “Look, I have come. As is written about me in the Scriptures:
Psalms 40:7 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.40.7.NLT

The more you study the word, the more of yourself you discover.

Also, When God created you, He Said let us make man in our own image, After our likeness, I.e let them have abilities to do the things we can do, let them have the capacity to think, ,discover, process, produce etc.

He gave you His Spirit to guide you when He breathe into your nostrils the breathe of Life,

He gave you a mind(Soul) to feel, think, have emotions, He gave you Brain to process.
All these are gifts from Him

He implanted passion Into you, He gave you desire, He gave you interest.

So how do you discover purpose with these gifts?

Your passion and interests are a pointer to your purpose.

The things you are naturally attracted to are pointers to your purpose.

Your purpose is the end to which your start a journey.

It is the reason for your living.

What you hate is a pointer to what you are created to solve

The problem you are created to solve is the reason why you are created.

Every purpose or assignment is a people oriented agenda.

So you can discover your purpose via your passion and hates.

Some of us are called to solve spiritual problems, some financial, some medical some, heart and excitement related.

Not everyone will be a pastor or be in ministry, some are called into medicine, some education.

Every human being has a primary purpose and a secondary purpose

The primary purpose is to Glorify God on earth
The Secondary purpose is the reason why you are here.

Ensure you discover your purpose (garden before you look for marriage, Purpose comes before marriage. Because you are supposed to fulfill purpose via marriage.

Marriage is more than intimacy, it is your destiny.

I hope this helps someone

I will continue Part 3 later

I see a burning generation
P.Daniel
#FireInMyBones.

WHY DO I LACK FRIENDS?

The reason why GOD has been receiving so much LOVE from billions of people for millenniums now, was because HE showed LOVE first.
And we have deemed it fit to try our best to reciprocate HIS LOVE.

In LIFE, we may never receive LOVE from so many people till we LOVE them first…

Many atimes, being beautiful doesn’t make people LOVE you, in fact it attracts more of lust that you could possibly imagine…

Proverbs 18:24 A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Very Simple!

Ignorance of this TRUTH has made many people lonely and neglected…

They act so much, they dress so much, they speak so fluently… But they’ve never understood the concept of ‘sticking closer than a brother’

It is something you earn…
So, it is not good enough to keep complaining, that no one LOVES you, or people hate seeing with you, or you feel so neglected…

Come out of that box of ideologies and renew your mind…

SHOW yourself friendly… And FRIENDS would come running after you.

©endtimes822