Many young people get confused at the junction of choosing a life partner.
The most painful part is that some people who are vibrant for God often times miss it because they don’t understand the concept of the will of God.
I will tell you the truth, you know P.Daniel is very plain, before I got my wife whom I am married to now (o deep), every lady looked like it,
I made mistakes oh haba but thank God for His mercies that saw me through.
Before you look for a man or a woman, ensure you discover your self and know your self,
A man or woman who doesn’t know himself/ herself does not have a business knowing a wife.
Starting a relationship that will lead to marriage is a naming process but until you have successfully named your self don’t ever name a lady a wife.
Purpose discovery is the first phase of destiny fulfilment while marriage is a seal and assurance of destiny fulfilment.
You can’t skip the first phase and want to arrive at the last phase, you will only succeed in frustrating your spouse for life.
Before God gave Adam a wife, He gave him a garden, have you discovered your garden?
When you discover your garden and nurture it, then you will be qualified for a wife, that is why they call a man groom(nurture, grow, develop, beautify)
A lady must also discover herself, because you are not meant for all gardens, you are called help meet ( suitable, adaptable, complimentary)
Your help is not needed every where,
there are particular gardens that you are meant to help in,
if you are meant to be in a hibiscus garden but you are found in a rose garden,
you will be frustrated because you are not suitable, adaptable and complimentary, you are not needed there, you will only be managed.
Ladies before you pray for a man, find your self, know your self,
know the garden where you are needed, discover the kind of garden where your help will meet(bible English (Help Meet)
Marriage is 100% purpose but intimacy and companionship are a process of purpose.
If you marry because your body is doing giz giz and you want to have sex , ahahhaha after marriage you will know that sex is sweet oh but there is something more than sex. It is called fulfilment
For me, I find it difficult to identify my wife, but I was so sure what she is not.
I was so sure what kind of garden I have, so I know the kind of help my garden will not need.
I tried a few relationships (you know I will say the truth), I ran out, not because they are bad, infact they are very good, beautiful, anointed but they are not the help my garden needed, they are good for another garden, I am not the best groom their lives needed.
Don’t forget this, when searching, everyone looks like it. So you need the help of the Holy Ghost.
IN CASE YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT, PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T WANT.
I had dreams, revelations about some of those former relationships oh, but something was not just adding up. IT IS MORE THAN DREAMS OH.
SOMEBODY WILL SAY I HAVE PEACE IN MY MIND, OR GOD CHANGE OUR GENOTYPE ahahhaha bros, don’t be deceived, it is more than peace, you can have peace and confidence in flesh and her big ……. Or nice shape (let me not say carnal things)
Beyond peace and signs, is your garden her garden, did she even know her garden?
I will continue part 2 later
I hope this help someone
I see a burning generation